Tessie was the drag name of Perry Spink, a local performer/bartender who was very familiar with the people and character of the Tenderloin District in San Francisco during the 60’s and 70’s. Legend has it that on Thanksgiving in 1974, he received several turkeys and was inspired to cook and serve them to the local Tenderloin residents (with the help of less-than-sober bar buddies). It was a gesture that showed the San Francisco Community that no matter who you were; there was someone who cared.
The dinners continued on a monthly basis for a while. It was a Godsend for the little blue haired women of the neighborhood who were trying to live off meager social security checks. These dinners, served on the last Thursdays of the month, garnered Tessie many honors and she earned the title of Empress 15 in 1980.
Along with the dinners, Tessie started the tradition of giving gift bags along with the meals, a tradition that lives on today. These bags contain donated items such as toiletries, socks, gloves and an assortment of non-perishable food.
Sadly, Tessie died in 1984 but the meals continued on an uneven basis. Three years later, the name Tenderloin Tessie Holiday Dinners was created and the meals became a holiday tradition on Easter, Thanksgiving and Christmas. They were served at a church on the corner of Eddy and Gough and began focusing on the needs of those suffering form AID’s and the growing number of homeless throughout the city.
The meals were a very satisfying way to help the community, but were becoming very large and were a great deal of work and stress for the few volunteers who loosely made up the board at the time. The program suffered a severe blow when the church burned to the ground in 1995. With the board in limbo and no place to stage the meals, many members felt it was time to move on.
A new board came together and the meals were moved to the present location, the First Unitarian Universalist church on Franklin and Geary. Since that time, the organization has become a non-profit and is stronger than ever and always mindful of the original mission of Tenderloin Tessie to help anyone in need. Everyone is welcome at our meals!
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|Sunday||May 13, 2018||Martuni's Show featuring Vanessa Bousay||7-8:30 PM||Martuni's at 4 Valencia Street|
|Sunday||June 24, 2018||Collect Money At Gay Pride||10 AM-6 PM||Gate On Hayes/Polk Street|
|Sunday||July 1, 2018||Red, White, & Blue Ducal Event||4-7 PM||Aunt Charlie's Lounge|
|Saturday||July 14, 2018||Imperial Council of SF fundraiser||3-6 PM||Beaux on Market Street|
|Sunday||Aug 19, 2018||Ducals Check hand out party||4-8 PM||The Cafe on Market Street|
|Sunday||Sep 2, 2018||SF Eagle Beverage Benefit||3-6 PM||SF Eagle Bar at 398 12th St|
|Saturday||Oct 20, 2018||Locker Inventory - Thanksgiving||9 AM-12 Noon||Affordable Self Storage|
|Thursday||OCt 24, 2018||Stuffing Turkeys for Turkey Pluck||7 PM||Michael's House|
|Fri-Thurs||Oct 26-Nov 22, 2018||Turkey Pluck||-||The Cinch, OMG Bar, Trax, and Others|
|Saturday||Nov 10, 2018||Imperial Council Fundraiser||4-7 PM||Beaux on Market Street|
|Thursday||Nov 22, 2018||Thanksgiving Dinner||1-4 PM||First Unitarian Church, 1187 Franklin Street|
|Friday||Nov 30, 2018||Tenderloin Tessie Christmas Cabaret Spectacular||6-9 PM||First Congregational Church SF, 1300 Polk Street|
|Saturday||Dec 1, 2018||Locker Inventory - Christmas||9 AM-12 Noon||Affordable Self Storage|
|Tuesday||Dec 25, 2018||Christmas Dinner||1-4 PM||First Unitarian Church, 1187 Franklin Street|